Amazing Anal Sex Tips for Gay Men

As a gay sex toy shop, we love anal sex and have a huge range of toys and accessories to make gay sex even more fun and exciting. But if you have never had anal sex before it can be a bit daunting so we have put together some tips to make your anal sex as amazing as it should be!

First Time Anal Sex

The first time for anal sex can be a bit of a surprise, for most men a good one, for others it can be a little uncomfortable and worrying so here are a few tips to make anal sex better, and better.

Difficulties can arise if you are tense and this causes the opening to the rectum to squeeze and become tight and hard. Relaxation and lots of lube is the tip that will help a nice hard cock get in there. We stock a huge range of lube so you can find your perfect slippery partner to make penetration as easy as possible. Perhaps fingers or smaller toys can be used to insert before full penetration to open up the ass and get to that enjoyable and relaxed stage. Anal training toys are the perfect toy to try solo if you want to see how it feels before taking the leap to anal sex.

Once the penis is in, the rectum will expand, and it can then enlarge enough to accommodate any sized penis with ease. There is a lot of pleasure to be found from having anal sex, as the anus has many nerve endings, and upon penetration, the penis will stimulate the prostate gland, which can lead to intense orgasms.

Discover What You Like

Anal sex is not only physically stimulating but psychologically invigorating too. Get to know your body, become comfortable, and experiment with different kinds of stimulation. Taking things slow and gentle is the best way to get started, as it will relax your internal sphincter. Experimenting with sex-toys, dildos and anal beads are a great way to discover what you enjoy and learn distinct methods of reducing possible pain, as pressure and friction can be caused. All of these gay sex toys can be found on

Great Anal Sex Positions

Practicing relaxation techniques, and deep breathing, can help with penile insertion. Communicate openly with your partner, and if things become uncomfortable, stop. Think about hygiene, as good hygiene will make for a better experience, as well as looking after your own health. Different positions can help with comfort; but once again this is all down to the individual, as the size of erection and degree of curvature to the penis can come into play. Many men find it easier when their knees are bent in towards their chest; whether you are kneeling or lying on a bed, this position tends to be a good one to start with, as the anal canal is elongated.

Great anal sex is a joy, the best recommendation we have is a relaxed attitude and plenty of lube, with a bit of preparation with anal toys before your first try you will feel how amazing anal sex is in no time!