Top Gay Sex Tips for Busy Couples – Keep the Sexy Spark Even When You’re Busy

Sometimes the most complicated part of having a great gay sex life is simply finding the time to have the sex! Busy gay couples with careers, family lives and busy social schedules sometimes need to have a reboot when it comes to having great gay sex. Whether the answer is simply to find more time or to get out of being in a gay sex rut we have some tips to make busy couples’ lives much sexier!

Couples Gay Sex Tips

Here are a few great gay sex tips for couples to keep that spark alive no matter how long you have been together:

Expectation Management

Having some realistic expectations about how often you are going to be able to have sex, and the type of sex you will be able to fit into your lives is the first step in having a better sex life. Lazy Sunday sex sessions may not now be possible, getting all the kinky gear out on a regular basis may seem just like too much work, so having a conversation about what you want to include that is practical is the best way to start.

Finding the time

One of the biggest reasons couples just don’t have sex is that they say they can’t find the time. We have a simple solution for this, if you spend most evening watching Netflix or channel hopping while you shop on your phone, simply have a rule that one or two night a week you replace screen time with sex time. Put your phones away and turn the telly off and you will be amazed at hoe much time you actually have! Wouldn’t you rather be having sex than watching an X-Files rerun?

Make it Special!

It is so easy when you are with a partner not to dress sexy for them – if you want to add some heat to your relations hip then make an effort and have a shower, do some personal grooming and pull on some sexy boxers to tempt your partner into bed. No matter how long you have been together making an effort for each other is a great idea.

Partner Flirting

When you have been with a partner for a long time, you may have forgotten that you can actually flirt with your partner! Sending a sexy text while they are at work, telling them how hot they look or giving their cute butt a quick squeeze from time to time is a great idea.

Quality over Quantity

If you like regular sex, then getting into a rut and a race to orgasm becomes the norm for many couples and then gay sex gets boring. So, try instead for the quality of the sex rather than quantity. Make a night of it, get all the sex toys out and really get down and dirty the way you did when you first got together.

Great Sex Toys

Sometimes introducing something new to the bedroom is all it takes to reignite that passion. Having some new sex toys, shop together for them, get horny and feel excited to try them out when they arrive! You will be wanting to play with them again in no time!