How to Get Better at Making Eye Contact During Gay Sex

The upside of looking deep into your partner’s eyes, when you are in the throes of passion, can greatly intensify the intimate sexual experience for the both of you. The downside of this direct eye-to-eye contact though, is that it can also make you feel extremely vulnerable.

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Why Does Eye Contact Feel Uncomfortable?

You would think that if you have the confidence to talk dirty, strip off, and play with sex toys with a partner, you would easily be able to gaze into his eyes and maintain eye contact during sex. Unfortunately, for most people, that’s just not so.

The avoidance of eye contact is often associated with shyness and lack of confidence. It can reveal a lot about someone, and can display when full attention is being paid, and also invite interaction. By looking away, when your partner makes eye contact during gay sex, you’re refusing to let your emotional guard down.

Improving Eye Contact

A good way of improving eye contact is to practice with strangers. When you’re out and about during the day, make an effort to look people in the eye when you’re say “thanks” for the service or assistance they have provided.

It will naturally feel a little intimidating at first but practicing every day will gradually improve your confidence.

Eye Contact During Sex

The next time that you and your partner are in the mood for sex is the perfect opportunity to engage in eye contact. If you don’t feel ready to look into his eyes full on, try focusing on the bridge of his nose. Your partner will be convinced that you’re looking into his eyes, and you will feel less vulnerable.

While taking a sex break, sit facing each other, with your eyes closed. Take a few deep breaths and open your eyes to look at each other. It’s OK if you feel overwhelmed and need to shift your gaze. If this happens, take a minute to prepare yourself and try looking at each other again. This intimate moment doesn’t have to be serious. You can have a laugh together and talk while you’re looking.

You can also have fun practicing making eye contact with facial expressions that let your partner know that you’re feeling hot and horny. The more you practice making eye contact during gay sex, the easier it will be to master the technique, in and out of the bedroom.

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