Did You Know Sexting Can Improve Your IRL Gay Sex Life?

Communicating what you want and need in a relationship doesn’t come easy for a lot of people. Men tend to find it challenging to communicate the thought that is in their head, into words that are spoken out loud. We know that sex toys are a great way to encourage conversation between partners, to let them try different things and this is why we stock such a huge range of varied gay sex toys!

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To enjoy a healthy and great gay sex life, it’s essential that you and your partner are able to communicate, open and honestly in real life. If you or your lover struggle to communicate between the sheets, sexting can help you get your message across without feeling vulnerable.

Sexy Chat Before Sex

To enhance what goes on inside the bedroom, it’s a good idea to start sexting each other outside of it. While he’s at work, send him a sexually explicit message to turn him on, and put him in the mood for what you have planned in the evening. If you’re stuck for what to say, think about your favourite sexual memory that involves your lover, and put the scenario into words.

Follow up with a naughty photo or video that shows him how turned on you are thinking about him. Ask him if he’s hot for you. The more sexting that you do outside of the bedroom, the easier it will feel to talk about your sexual wants and needs when you’re naked and intimate.

Naughty Talk During Sex

No matter how focused you are on giving and receiving pleasure, there is always time to communicate during sex. If you tend to be lost for words, think about the sext that you sent your partner earlier in the day.

Tell him how you’d love to try whatever you suggested. If you’re playing out a fantasy in your IRL gay sex life, you’ll need to communicate with your body, hands and lips. Give you partner verbal instructions, like: “a little softer or harder, please”. Ask him to communicate what is and isn’t working for him.

Tell him how much you love that thing that he does that drives you wild. The more information that you share the easier it will be for him to reciprocate with personal details.

Relaxing Chat After Sex

After sex is the perfect time to cuddle up and talk intimately. Seize the opportunity and use it to express how much you enjoyed a sexual position or using a sex toy to enhance orgasm.

Making a pact to sext each other every day will ensure that you jointly continue to improve your IRL gay sex life.