How To Play with Dildos for Men

Gay sex with a dildo is pure joy! Whether you are by yourself or with a partner every gay man should have at least one dildo and know how to pleasure himself with it!

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Dildo Play for Gay Men

Dildo play in the bedroom is a must for every gay man, whether with a gay escort or alone and whether it’s a strap-on or free use. The unique sensation of being anally penetrated leads to the best orgasms. It also adds spice, enhances pleasure and best of all they’re totally versatile so you do whatever you prefer most.

A word to the wise – if you’re not terribly experienced with using dildos, then it’s better to start small and work your way up. Pleasure isn’t necessarily linked directly to length and width so you can take your time. For total anal play beginners, using a butt plug is a good way to get things started!

Gay Dildo Play Tips

Here are a couple of great ways to play with your favourite dildo:

  1. If you’re alone with your dildo then use it to stimulate yourself in lots of different ways. Even just changing your position can offer different stimulation. Pleasure from doing this is equally available from using it lying flat on your back or crouched over on the floor.
  2. Bring a partner into play. Having an extra phallic object between you in the bedroom will give an exciting thrill.
  3. ‘Pegging’ is using a strap-on dildo with your partner. Experiment with positions and remember that silicone dildos are among the best out there.
  4. Penetrate your partner anally with a strap-on dildo while he’s on all fours. Then reach around to massage his erect penis – this total stimulation will have him orgasming all over your hand within minutes.
  5. It’s an old tip, but one of the best. No matter how experienced you and your partner are with dildos, always take the time to lube up with a good quality brand. The slippery, smooth sensation will always be a winner.
  6. Some dildos come with a suction cap base. This can be attached to your bedroom wall, bathroom wall (or any walls really, though you may want to re-think the kitchen and living room!). Using one of these really ups the ante in terms of providing a ‘real’ sensation.
  7. Other niche dildos are those you can get with a special angle-shaped head which is designed to hit your prostate spot on. And there’s no extra discussion needed about why prostate orgasms are the best around.
  8. If you’ve started small, then why not move it up a notch with a few extra inches on your dildo or extra width. This is a perfect idea for those who enjoy anal play who are seeking increased pleasure, excitement and maybe a bit of a challenge in the bedroom.