Gay Sex and Talking Dirty

As an online gay sex toy shop, we love all things sex, and some good dirty talk has got to be top of the list of ways to get horny. So, before you whip out the latest gay sex toy or gadget that you bought from us, get your partner in a really filthy mood with these dirty talk tips.

Gay Sex Toys and Dirty Taking

Dirty talk is sexy, dirty talk takes what can be an ordinary gay sex session to something truly special, but of you like to do the dirty talking it sometimes can be a bit awkward wither to get started or to know what to say once you have got going.

If it is, you that wants to do the dirty talking, but you are a bit shy about getting started here are some of our favourite tips on voicing those naughty thoughts that are in your mind

Dirty Talk Basics

Whether you are just looking for some naughty phrases for your vanilla sex session or want some vocab for those kinky times remembering the basics is a great way to start. Ensuring the person, you are talking to feels as sexy as you are horny is the place to star, you look sexy, and I want to do naughty things to you can sound a little cheesy when written down but in the heat of the moment it is a great place to start fuelling the horniness that is to come.

Be Descriptive

You can start talking about what is on your mind, you can talk about a porn film you have seen or a fantasy you have, even if you have no intention of acting it out in that timeframe just letting the other person know what makes you horny is a turn on. Being descriptive about the things you like or things you have seen that you like makes it easier for you to get the dirty talk started. The more descriptive you are the more the other person can visualise in their mind what you want to do with them and that is what dirty talk is all about.

Ask Questions

Getting information out of your partner or if you have a lull in what to say but want to keep the dirty talk momentum up is a great time to ask questions of your sexual partner. This is more relevant if you are doing something new or using a new sex toy or piece of equipment, ask how it feels if you put it here, or there. Ask if they want it harder, faster, slower, or quicker. Their responses will not only let the dirty talk flow better but give you a better idea on what they like. If you are the sub in this scenario, then asking what they are going to do next or how they would like you to behave works well too.

Dirty Talk & Gay Sex Toys

Having a range of great gay sex toys to hand can really help in the dirty talk as you can describe to your partner exactly what you are going to do to them with the toys before or as you are doing it.